Enneagrams and Relationships

I find myself using certain phrases with clients of like this may just be my own stuff coming up but or this may be like me projecting my experience into yours and it's just a way or a token to say like I'm acknowledging that I am a human right now. One thing that's standing out to me is genuine connecting on how meaningful those relationships are you just had that talk on dropping with beyond about the relationship. It feels like in basic training that's not yeah either not mentioned or when it is it's it's excluded, she says.