What Turns Me on More Than to See Him Turned On?

Most straight couples i work with, i will typically hear the man say, nothing turns me on more than to see her turned on. The last thing he wants is pitty sexon to be serviced by some one who's just doing her duty. If she is not into it, she can do whet. He can se standing in any position he wants. What turns her on is to be the turn off? Wells rightand to mean that her sexuality is actually highly narcisistic. And if she can think about herself, it means that she can free herself from the burdens of caretaking.