How to Find Love in a Relationship

I always tell the girls like you're looking in the wrong place because if they don't know at first and they find out then there's either they're not going to want anything to do with you or they switch up real fast. I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend so although I do porn I am very loyal to him and I don't ask for anymore. A lot of my trans friends are hopeless to find someone. Yeah they shouldn't be because there's going to be somebody there it's just you can't it has to kind of happen on its own.