"I just love the fact that she's going along on this sort of you know good feeling you know forgiveness moment until she's sort of asked to forgive it makes me think of uh as you were reading it the lord's prayer flashed into my mind right let's forgive our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us," he says. "She's providing an argument and deflating it herself yeah there's a quote i tried to memorize this for many years but it's i think it's a long fellow" 'If you could know your enemy's secret sorrow was in fears that person wouldn't be your enemy'  is more beautiful than that, according to one writer