I'm Not Getting Through Any When I Finally Just Raise My Voice

My buttons were getting pushed. I was being pushed across the line and a, you know, the boundary line. And so i finally just raised my voice. Because we are self protective people or beings. We want to protect ourselves. The bounce back from that event was quick and nearly painless. Everything i wanted to say i said, and i got it out. An argument doesn't have to be toxic. When it's toxic, that needs to be addressed.