So remember to try to have a little bit of compassion for the karen, right? So i think this is the kind of thing we're like, making them feel stupid may make you feel good, but it's probably not going to help the situation. The one of the hardest skills to learn is how to be com passionate while maintaining your boundaries. For someone who has b p d, they detect anger at 20 to 30% more than normal people. Hatussor: "The brain has grown up to be more sensitive"