The Need to Emphasize the Otherness of Others

The need to emphasize the otherness of others is they're very very strong, because the ego needs it. Imagine that you're entering a Twilight Zone as in the old movie Twilight Zone and one morning you wake up and you find that every human being on this planet belongs to your party...your entire identity would collapse. So instead of emphasizing the others with the part of the egoic insanity, the dysfunction of the ego that has created so much suffering on the planet, when you can recognize there is something that you share  that is consciousness, the essence of who you are then it would be possible to actually even have a conversation if the other has also some access to it If not maybe