How to Approach Someone in Person

"It just feels, it feels more masculine to just be like, Oh, you know, did you need a drink? I'm going to get one. And then like starting, starting conversation that something nice or he's not," she says. "I wouldn't really want that because I would just think like, okay, this person clearly is kind of like, I would feel like they're trying to manipulate ... Maybe it's not more genuine about someone buying you a drink than telling you providing value."