I Promise That Will Not Think Less of You as a Person

If you are a woman who has ever struggled with self acceptance because of your rape fantasies or your desires for violent, aggressive sex, know that you make up at least conservatively, at least 80 % of the population. And honestly, between the two of us, the other 20% is lying. So work hard to create an attitude of safety. That phrase, no matter what you say, right, i promise that will not think less of you as a person. And that it melts away their fear like a hot knife through butter. It really helps.