When you turn the mirror inwards, it finds itself. It will always be infinite inside your head. The second that i'm able to get it out of my head, talk some one else about it, wor actually go and do something for someone else,. focus on something outward outside of my immediate issues and problems. Guess what? A sunney doesn't seem to be so bad. And there is really something in that. You got a laugh also at the narcissism of us as humans because it's not helping people who go on these long, never ending personal development journeys. By directing whatever it is that you've learned in the world, you larn far more about yourself.