The Importance of Relationship Growth

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Your identity is anchored by your expectations of your partner, right? Like they think they married you as person X and if like you were to suddenly become person Y that's pretty dramatic. And I think a lot of people want to grow in their relationship, which I think is great. But often it works best if like the two people are sort of growing together in some sense,. Whereas like if they're growing in totally different directions, that's not always great.

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Why is most communication advice so fluffy? How can we actually communicate better? Why do we sometimes fail to say what we mean or what needs to be said? What counts as "nonviolent" communication? To what extent is avoidance of conflict and confrontation a result of agreeableness versus cowardice? What aspects of divorce aren't talked about enough?

Misha Glouberman helps people communicate and connect better. He teaches a course called How to Talk to People About Things, online and in person, that helps people get better outcomes in their most important conversations at work and at home. He is an expert facilitator and designer of online and in-person events. He hosts the Trampoline Hall Lectures in Toronto, and is the co-author, with Sheila Heti, of The Chairs Are Where The People Go. He does lots of online events, so join his email list to learn more about them.

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