Seduction and power are two things that i think people bristle atd i'll tell you, i hope this is the conclusion of my therapy. But part of my strategy, i'm very competitive. I didn't know i was very competitive until i was probably 38 years old. And it's gross to me to even say, like, and i can seduce people. Why don't you talk about cause it seems up your alley? The shame that we have about things that we actually want,. How we have to overcome that.