How to Get in a Women's Group

I fel like women groups do become becase they're so trusting. And laial, yes, it's very hard to get in a group once it's been published. But but boys will accept you, no level not being like  'let's let this girl hang around because she's like reasonably good crack and maybe she'll fuck one of us ato' The downside of that being is those male friends will absolutely abandon you.