The Problem With Insecurity

If you're a forty year old man and your dating record looks like a constant revolving dore of 20 something year old girls, there are other women out there that you could date. And the only reason you're not with them is because you're terr ed of what your buddies are going to say when they see a picture of your girl friend. You can't make everyone happy. That's the warmed over truism that's relevant here. By attaching your identity to a way your particular circle of friends behave, and then spending the rest of your life vehemently opposing any change, for tear that the're going to negatively judge you,. Its not necessarily wrong, it's just certainly not the recipe