How to Have Better Sex in a Sexless Marriage

39% of American couples don't have sex, according to Barry McCarthy. The first rung on the 'wedding cake model' is resolving your resentments. Second prong or a tear going up in the pyramid is building the friendship with your partner. Third tier is sensual time - this could include a central massage or cuddling together. And then the top tier is sexual if both partners are open to it.