How to Hard Launch Yourself on Instagram

Anonymous writes: "I recently got ou of a seven year relationship that ihave been in since i was 18. I'm fully recovered and feel like i'm thriving, but i don't know how to relaunch my instigram" She says she's ready to post a fire selfy to essentially say, hey, the d ms are open, without being aggressive and petty. Please give me some advice on how to hard launch my self while still being classy and tasteful.