Didn't You Experience Disfellowshipping?

I've had those times where you're going like, there's some sort of circumstance that all of a sudden it becomes like a, you view something on hindsight. So being in hindsight, we just talked about it. I experienced it with my own family. My sister had a crisis of faith at 19 years old and left abruptly from our family and the religion to another town after she got raped. She didn't tell us any of this until like after it happened and they disfellowshipped her out of the congregation for a long time. They'll break it down and use just not the full blood in itself. It's just, well, we're continually getting brighter and brighter light