Most people relate to needing their parents to be ok as kids. That's just biological, we know that our our survival depends on them. Most of us have childhood memories of trying to make sure that at least one of our parents was always in the right mood. It seems like maybe 75 per cent is a recovering people pleaser. And i think he pointed out that something in me used to be worse,. Like, get people pleasy is a real disease, yes?