How Do You Get Stabilized?

Stephanie Coontz: I want to dive a little deeper, right? We talked about kind of step one acceptance and sort of the way that we process that. So step two is stabilize. She says it was cultivating calm; leading by example and giving people permission to feel feelings. And then the third part of stabilize was making the plan, making hard decisions,. creating a strategy and going from there. "I think this wasn't by design, but really our first thing was stabilize," she said.