Charlotte Church - ‘I was totally exploited. I was a commodity’
How To Fail With Elizabeth Day
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Charlotte Church is currently starring in the first ever series of BBC One’s Celebrity Traitors. But she first found global fame as the young classical singer with the voice of an angel. By 22, she had sold 10 million records and performed for popes, presidents and princes. The success came at a devastating personal cost - here, she tells us what really happened and how she found her way into what is arguably her most powerful iteration yet: her healing phase.
This episode was recorded live in Bath earlier this year.
✨ IN THIS EPISODE:
06:33 Reconnecting with Nature
08:55 Psychedelic Experiences and Healing
10:31 Creative Struggles and Musical Journey
16:38 Reflections on the Music Industry
21:09 Family and Ambitions
21:33 Struggles with Patriarchy and Colonialism
22:30 The Symbolism of Tattoos
24:13 Understanding Patriarchy
29:57 Challenges in the Music Industry
31:28 Personal Identity
34:39 Embracing the Wild Woman Archetype
40:08 Balancing Fame and Personal Beliefs
💬 QUOTES TO REMEMBER:
There's no two ways about it: I was not looked after, I was not nurtured, I was just totally exploited. I was a commodity and the industry was incredibly razor sharp.
What makes us advance, is suffering.
I'm dreaming of a world where everybody can start to feel what balance truly feels like.
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Charlotte is starring in Celebrity Traitors on BBC One
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