
Should we optimise our relationships?
Not Overthinking
Are You Having a Preferential Relationship?
Make sure both people are on the same page, because you don't want someone who's like, oh, yeah, i expect that we're going to spend after work time together every day. I think an interesting model to have is there are factors that that fade and factors that don't, right? So if you're looking at something like, uh, looks, no matter how attractive someone is, that becomes a less significant part of the relationship once you're ten years into it. But again, the benefits of pulling out your values, kind of knowing what you're what you're looking for, and and actually being clear about it if you have no idea.
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