How to Give More Intimacy to Your Show

I feel like in a good day if I see the person I love like yeah it's just as intimate of course but that's pretty new or recent lately anyway. But I will say it's much easier in a radio situation like it always was. And you know like in a personal relationship the things you're stressed out on are way more present than in an interview. How did you go about learning that? Practice being being told like no not like that.