The Origin Story of a Baby

She's had nothing but coercive threat based unpredictable parenting from her dad and predictable total dismissing avoidant shut down cold parenting from her mother who that's a lot to work through. I kept thinking about John Gottman's work you know John Gottman is sort of John and Julie Gottman about they talk about the four apocalyptic horsemen of doomed marriages like signaling end times and here they are criticism which is like attacking everything that shows up everything yeah. The second one is contempt this is what you're mean and it's not just disrespect it moves into like mocking ridicule demeaning shaming and eat and there's a lot of nonverbal stuff that can go with that too eye rolling scoffing all