Gender Differences in Relationships

Men are mostly socialized to have one primary language for talking about all their hidden needs. Through sex they can talk about love, connection, surrender, abandon, control, domination. For women, it's like the talk is five layers of relatedness to finally be able to drop some sexual hate. All these distinctions, I think, are enormously old, dualistic, stifling, and they're getting boring. It's like, can we talk in a different way?