Speaker 1
We get comfortable guys. That's the point is I know you're going to make a mistake. I've made mistakes like that, where you just let it slip because sometimes you just have a really bad day. You have something happen where a grandparent, a parent, someone dies, you get fired. Pretty bad things can happen to you. Those things don't happen often, but they happen. It's not going to be the end of the world. But if I can pull you back into thinking, hey, let's try to save some of those more emotional times for the times when you can't hold it in. Like when we have someone who we know passes away or something really intense happens, it's fine, we can at least try to have more moments of mental strength and happiness and positivity because women want to be around that. They don't want to be around a guy who doesn't have it figured out who's super emotional all the time. And they might say that, but they don't know what they're asking for. And here's the thing guys, I finally solved it. I should do a whole episode on this, but I'll start now because you guys who are really need to know this, very important. I've been doing research and I'm finding out, you know, what women always talk about, I don't know if you've heard this, they want a man who's emotionally available. Have you ever heard this? Have you ever heard a woman say I want a man who's emotionally available? If you haven't, oh, they say it. They say it all the time. They say when they complain about not, they're not being good men out there. You know, and you ask, well, what kind of man do you want? I want a man who's emotionally available. They say, I talked to my friend Jonathan Asley, who we have another podcast that we do together. We need to keep doing that. It's called relationships are underrated. And I talked him the other day, I said, Jonathan, I need to understand because you work with women, what does it mean when women say I want an emotionally available man? And not to recap every ounce of that conversation, but I have concluded and he agreed to that emotionally available just means a man that's around that shows attention. And that's there for them. And that shows that they like them.