Is Your Partner a Load to You?

My wife suffers from severe depression and anxiety. She has panic attacks to the point of pulling out hair and scratching scars into her arms. I told her that although i can afford to sup us both, i expected us to have a two income household even if she was only making minimum wage. Each fight leaves her crying and feeling worthless and makes me not want to broach important subjects any more. I feel helpless and lost. How do i shed this resentment without shedding her signed drowning in some one else's depression? Well, this is a hard one, y eve, because, of courseit's, it's not just about money. Moneyis a piece of it. And i want to