Charisma

If you're with a woman, be with that woman, be present. Second thing is just effort, mental effort in the conversation. Remember her name, pay attention to what she's saying,. active listening, respond to her interests and preferences. This requires effort, but it's cognitive effort. It's keeping your mind sharp in the Conversation. And for that five, 10, 15 seconds, two minutes, 20 minutes, you are his entire world.