What Do You Want From Your Family?

"I don't want christmas to be a never ending, miserable concatination of the foolishness that we've encountered for the last ten years," he says. "As you move towards your goal, the way that you look at what you want is going to change." He tells his students not to get all perfectionistic about making their own plans. 'Having a bad map is way better than having no map at all'