The Matrix Dilemma

There's a constant expectation that in time, everything will come all right. In certain people, they're reaching a certain age, generally the beginning of the 40s brings a sobering effect so that they begin to use their own forces or there is an erotic breakdown. Are we going to be another generation that on their deathbeds, like, oh my God, I've been swimming and information and possibilities, but I was never really, really present, really, really alive?