CNN's LZ Granderson talks to a mother about her son playing video games on his phone all day. She says he is addicted and knows it, but can't stop himself from doing it. He understands that if he spends ten hours a day on the week ends, like, on his phone, instead of playing basketball and exercising,  it's going to be hard for him "to date," she writes. But when you start asking questions such as: 'Why do you want to go to college? What are your values in life?' You're setting yourself up for failure by not being able to answer these simple questions properly, according to Granderson.