The Importance of Saying No

The inability to say no in a reasonable amount of time actually encourages ENFPs to say no at the last minute when they feel overwhelmed and they just can't handle it. And I think this is again, goes back to authenticity. Why are you keeping your commitment? Is it because you actually believe that this is a value of yours or do you think the other person is going to be upset? Like, is this something that you're bringing as like an ethic? Right? The idea that once you say yes, you can never say no again, right about this thing? It's not possible. Unless it's like a massive commitment and maybe values been exchanged,. If it's just like