Bhakta would actually suffer and go through the suffering, but surrender everything to the Lord. That's the devotee's way of dealing with it. But what Tudian energy said was interesting. He said that I have got that by getting which there is nothing greater to be gotten and established in which the deepest of sorrows cannot shake you. Is coding from the Gita? Yungla, Dhuanach, Aparam, Lava, Manyate, Tathodhikam.