How to Enable a Relationship

When we think about enabling, the first thing that for me comes to mind is actually a people pleasing response. It's all related to that lack of trust or security or connection in our childhood. And this is really relevant for me personally, because i've uncomfortably been sitting with these last six months, this last year, how much I enabled my brother, jake's addiction without really wanting to lek even see it or admit it. So i really looking at zomingow and being honest with ourselves about our own, our own enabling where we've allowed ourselves to be enabled.