Sanscrit: You have to work through the crap that you've built up psychologically, through all your microtramas and what not. In sanscrit we call those kinds of things samscars,. These are like the lessons that your mind learned through sub optimal emotion processing. And then you carry those scars with you. We understand this stuff really well. Bcause we call it like relationship baggage, right? Like oalik. Why didn't that relationship work out? Oh, like that due just had weigh too much baggage. So you got to go through and clean that crap out, and by all means engage in treatment!