
78. Aftercare: F*ck Me Hard, Then Tell Me You Love Me
Honeydew Me
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How to Communicate With Your Partner When They Have Different Aftercare Needs
I want to briefly touch on what to do if your partners aftercare needs are like different than yes uh-huh because I think that that comes up a lot. Acknowledge Explain Offer where you first acknowledge what the other person needs and then you explain why maybe it doesn't work for you or why there's a disconnect there. Then you offer something else so those three things can really be helpful when communicating about different needs. Like sticking to your word even though that's not going to happen all of the time you know we can all make mistakes and like whatever fuck up but I feel like that would build that self-trust back up at least from my own healing journey.
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