In recent years, I talk probably a lot less, but not quite the zero level of Angela Duckworth. The problem with the 3% role is that it could become 100%. Listen to you, listen to that sneer in your voice,. That's what I'm worried about. It's like, you know, I can't say what you say. You are capable of getting a PhD in psychology. You're capable of having a family and functioning in all these different ways. And yet you're not capable of saying next to a stranger next to you on an airplane: It's been really nice talking to you.