Alcoholism

Is it our place to say something, in fear of ruining the friendship? Is there even a tactful way of having this conversation? Their lism? There is alcoholism in both my family and my wife san. We know how that conversation will go. But we can also see that ther and their kids lives are being dominated by this. Any thoughts? Ah, o hum isaid, i don't know how you say anything to these people. All i'm telling you is that they're probably going to get pissed at you for not helping them out. Arinde on them.