Relationships - How Can You Stay in Love for Decades?

"I can be talking about in detail and go into a total tailspin about like the Enneagram or something. And I know my boyfriend has no idea what I'm talking about and like doesn't care, but he'll sit there and listen," she says. "It matters that he's showing up because he knows how much it means to me." She adds: "Even if you think the relationship is dead, you have so much anger...you don't think it can arise again"