Sometimes when we have one feature we think should fix loneliness. O or the world tells us, invalidates us if we say we're lonely. We can use that feature as a crutch to connect with other people. After engaging in sexual relations with a friend, friend with benefits, we'll start to create catching feelings. Youre lonely or lonely until you have sex with someone. And then for a few moments, you're connected. It's devastating because failing at life is one thing, but failing at life on n easy mode destroys who you are and your capacity for self love. So wha do we do about this?