How to Deal With Pronouns

I'm still struggling with the with the thing it's not because I'm I'm trying to be especially when I'm talking about a particular person in a particular situation that's where I just gotta get hung up a little bit. There is a great video I'll try to find it it was probably a tiktok actually that this person was just articulated how I feel in a much better way. If you still think I'm some kind of a blighted monster you're not doing me any favors right like I don't think you've ever really thought of me as a particularly feminine person  and then on top of that layer I believe I even said to you and Max like hey