How to Make Eye Contact With People You Really Want to Have Sex With

I can't make eye contact with people I really want to have sex with. That's the only way I know I can have sex with someone is if I can make any friends eye contact with them. No if it's somebody I'm a target to that like makes me nervous so I don't look at them. Sometimes my eye contact isn't true eye contact it's literally me disassociating. Looking through you. But my eyes just so happen to be landing on your face. You're very good at making everyone in the room feel like you're talking to them which not many people do honestly. It's usually like people will talk to me. What about me? The quiet