Tracy: I was thinking about this word crave. Like why don't we give people what they crave? Tracy: Sometimes there's a little bit of a shadow side of, Oh gosh, if I give them what they crave, they might take too much of it. We fear that they're going to be needy orWe fear that we're encouraging their neediness. Tracey: Cravings is about hunger, not neediness. And when people don't feel seen, understood or wanted, they'll drip off a tree like pumpkin ice cream.