Do You Really Know What You're Saying?

Listen by not becoming defensive about what she feels we got wrong, but being right in there. The fixing of the problem is the listening process and then letting your wife or your daughter or your son say, here's what i heard you say. People need to be heard before they are asking for a solution beyond being heard. And so this is what i hind my couples communication chouruses in much greater depth than i've explained here.