The Elephant in the Room: How to Deal With Disappointment

"As Dr. Hink says, your job is to disappoint people," she said. "I had just never thought about it in those terms before of just being okay with being uncomfortable" She developed that phrase mostly for mothers who were devastated when their children left the church and felt like their world crumbled. But this is really powerful for LDS women because we are socialized like in Western society to feel responsible for the welfare and happiness of those that we love.