The Parent's Perspective on Parenting

We are, in a very deep sense, born out of an agopic love that precedes us. There's nothing that is more transformative for an adult than having a child. You understand yourself and can reflect on yourself because of the way you have eternalized other people's attention on you. That is how you gain your own understanding. And freud picked up on this, but i thin he also twisted it in this sense. Its very our relationship to our parents, and please listen to this very carefully, is, in that sense, erotic,. In the sense that we are consuming them, we are internalizing them. We are becoming one with them. Do you see? This is