How to Approach the Opposite Sex

I find that women will react very well to honesty and they'll reactvery well to somebody being upfront and respectful and courteous with them. I wish someone had pointed out to me rather than having the influences that I had not my parents and they were very honest with me but friends and peers around me that would influence me into you know to get what you want from women you have to trick or manipulate them. The dating game is now broken it's immoral and it's unethical and it's debased it's not good so I think if we're all honest with ourselves we know that how if you're a male listening for this would you feel more happy with yourself if you spent six months