Is Your Protector Serving Me?

The protector is the part of you that's solution oriented. The protector looks at what needs to be done, what's the end goal and says, man, that is a big hill to climb. And so it's not that it's not serving us, it's just not serving us effectively. That's why there needs to be this negotiation down. It's trying to keep us safe. So in essence, the protector is serving you in terms of really working to keep you safe,. But he can't be the part ofyou that's solution-oriented.