Dream paradigm is a very high stand to take many of the problem most of the problems of life you can deal with much more effectively than you would otherwise yes dream paradigm is. must be grounded in that lesson not just read about it and go away with it grounded means it must seem real must grasp that lesson strongly then use that light in day to day life say for example I'll give you a very interesting insightyou lose your temper that person behaves rudely to you and you lose your temper with that person but now suppose you suddenly wake up sitting on your bed and you realize all of that was a dream  that was a dream the person who behave like that were nothing other than you the