How Can I Use What She Just Said to Keep the Interaction Going?

The NLP approach is what do I need to do to get the outcome that I want? So if I'm trying to connect with this girl, I eventually want to take her home and sleep with her, how can I keep things moving forward in that direction? Obviously, you don't have control over her choices. But if you're looking at each piece of information that she gives you as an opportunity to move things forward, instead of just, oh, no, I did it wrong. That would be kind of like the approach being pushy.