The Rival of Control Manifests Itself in Conditions

Every time he stoppedad ju said, by the way, here's where i'm at right now. We're not at the place of proposal yet, but i'm working my way towards there. Every time said that to her, she was like, ok, because the answer right now is no. That kind of trust grows when you keep going back to that person and say, i don't want to manipulate this. I just want to grow in trust. The question, of course, is, what happens if the answers still know? What happens when te answer is still no? What happens hen i don't get what i want? How do we deal with rival of control manifesting